I am an idealist with a healthy dose of realism. We can be taken down by the disappointments of our daily lives and the dark forces within them, or the greater world, or we can confront these realities and counterbalance them with creativity and compassion. My idealist nature has opened me up to not just a few tricksters throughout my life, and in recent years, I’ve experienced a not-so-healthy dose of disappointment. It is easy, and human, to become discouraged, to want to disengage as a result. And this reaction very well may be necessary for our own healing and growth. Like a yoga instructor once said to me, “It’s important to open, but you have to close, too.” This was a really important revelation for me.
But then you need to find a way to open back up again–to trust, to forgiveness, to acceptance. That is the hard task of living. Cynicism, negativity, rigidity are much easier, but if prolonged, much deadlier states of being. I know I have held on to people or incidents using them to stoke my anger, as proof of what a dismal business any relationship can be. The reality is no matter how generous or kind you are to some people, no matter how authentically you try to conduct your life, you can’t necessarily expect reciprocation, and to expect as much, while only natural, can be a recipe for disappointment. It also leads to a transactional view of the world or relationships (rather than a transformational one) which isn’t healthy or realistic in the long run. What I’ve come to find, rather, is that often you will receive what you need when you need it, and it may be from an unexpected source, at an unexpected time. Sometimes this source is within us, other times it is outside of us. Reminding myself of this on a daily basis is one thing that helps me persevere in my personal and professional realms. It also helps me recognize my own shortcomings and forgive myself when I haven’t directly acknowledged or repaid someone’s kind act.
And this weekend in particular gave me pause to reflect on all of this, not only because of the conversations and interactions I had, but also because I received an unexpected gift in the mail from a fellow paper crafter. There are myriad reasons why anyone creates art–for me, one reason is to counteract the ugliness in the world, and sometimes in my mind. It is the same reason why I, and many of us, retreat into nature. Both remind me that the world is a beautiful place and we can have a hand in that beauty. Becoming part of an international group of paper crafters and artists has contributed to that sense as well.
So I just wanted to publicly thank Jeanne of A Kept Life for her kind gesture. Not only did she send me one of her gorgeous cards with a wonderful note, she included some Pretty Little Studio materials–and I love their work. In case you don’t know Jeanne, she is on numerous design teams and has an amazing flair for color and pattern. Her cards just pop out of the screen, and are even more delightful in real life. Please pay her a visit! These are just a few of my favorites of hers, seasonally appropriate! Click on image for more information.
I have been working, as usual, behind the scenes quite a bit on different pieces, but haven’t had much time to write and post the work. I finalized this card last week, inspired by Fusion’s latest challenge. There are some AMAZING entries (as usual) from the design team and players this week! Go check them out!
I integrated most of the imagery in the photo, including the branches and the mini candelabra, and manipulated the sketch a bit.
The inside sentiment is from Waltzingmouse’s Halloween set released last year. All of the ephemera is from an old American Crafts set; I die cut the clock (Crafter’s Companion), branch (Memory Box), and leaf sprig (Maggie Holmes). The papers are old October Afternoon, and the base is one of my favorite cardstocks, “Fuse” by MFT. I am not a big twine or ribbon user in my cards, but I do love the look of that moldable wax twine as a finishing touch sometimes.
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In the next few days, as the moon becomes full and the veil thins, I hope your world will be full of good spirits, and if you encounter any ghouls, may you find the power to cast them off. I plan to be back with some more Halloween fare before the week is out, but if not, enjoy this enchanted season and revel in the treats of Halloween night!